Just be "Real"...

Too much FAKE shit going on in this world these days....


People are pretending to be someone else for the soul pleasure of pleasing another. I thought that life was about making yourself happy and meeting people that keep you happy along the way.......i guess i am WRONG!!!

I learned awhile back that being someone else hard is to do, you try to keep up with the "Lie" and you actually end up believing that you are this persona that you have created. We all die one day, and when that day comes i want to know that i lived my life as Robert......................and Robert is one COOL ASS NIGGA!!

What do Females "Really" want from a nigga?

Been a minute since i really felt the urge to write some shit down, but today is that day so, allow me to re-introduce myself............LMAO!

As of late i've been having conversations about relationships and just how Men and Women relate to each other nowadays. I've heard chicks say "I want a nigga who spends time, but doesn't smother me" some have said "I want to be treated like a queen and this nigga better not be broke!" i've also heard "I just want a nigga to be a man about his" (Still not sure what the fuck she was talkin about, LMFAOOO!)

I have come to the conclusion that you WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT Y'ALL WANT when it comes to the type of man you want to be in a relationship with. I mean, on one hand you want a nigga who spoils you, then you want a nigga who is all about you and no one else, then you want a nigga that can give you your space when needed....like are y'all SERIOUS?

To be honest, there is no nigga alive in this universe that has all of these qualities. So, the fact that you expect to find this nigga and for him to be faithful is funny to me! If this nigga did exist, there in NO WAY he could be in a faithful relationship because all women are looking for him and temptation would be too much for him....

Not to say us Men don't have our issues with finding that "Perfect" female, it's just that i can only speak for what i want and i'm a save that for another time............LMFAO!

These 2011 N*ggaz and that "Love" S**t!

HOLD UP!!!!!....................Hold the FUCK up!!!!

What the hell is going on with these 2011 niggaz nowadays? It seems like the roles have been reversed when it comes to this "Love Shit". I've noticed that these niggaz seem to be more emotional and sensitive around females. I can understand "keepin it real" and "Expressing yourself", but you niggaz must be watching too much Lifetime and listening to too much New Edition because y'all are going about shit WRONG!!!!

As of late, being in a relationship seems like the "IT" thing to do. I think this is because of the fucked up shit that's been going on as of late, Recession, Earthquakes, rise in Murders. Even the damn Gas prices going up will make a nigga want to find someone to gave half on a tank with. (lmfaooo!!)

Fellas, it shouldn't get to the point where we feel we can't live life without being involved in a relationship because when that happen...........we lose our MANHOOD!!!

I say that because men have always been know to be the providers, the "Backbone", the nigga who makes shit happen and getting yourself caught up like that is a big NO-NO!!!

This may just be some bullshit ass talk from a nigga who has been in too many "Failed" relationships or from a hating ass nigga who ain't got no girl...................or maybe, just maybe i might be someone who has learned some shit along the way and wants to put some of y'all up on "game"

Anyway,

The Liquor has been poured........................LET'S GET FUCKED UP!!

*gotti*

Shit on my mind at the moment........Part 1 (Female B.S)

She gets on my damn nerves...

She never calls a nigga back
She never calls a nigga PERIOD!
She always wants something from me
She expects too much and gives too less
She must think i'm STUPID!

These are just some of the things that go through the mind of Robert, when it comes to certain females that i come in contact with. Maybe this is Karma's way a paying a nigga back for all the bad shit i've done in my life or maybe one of my crazy Ex Girlfriends put a curse on me that has given me this "Bad Luck" with the ladies.........It is what it is though!!!


Let me let you Ladies on to a SECRET that you most likely already know...

Most men put on a front when it comes to shit like LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!
We give off this Player persona but at the end of the day we want stability just as much as you do........especially nowadays. Not sure why we do this, but it happens and it is something that i'm working on. (Can't speak for the rest of these niggaz, lmfaooo!)


I realize that trying to figure out who Robert is isn't easy, but you have to understand that i am still learning that myself........I thank you for your you patience!!

*gotti*

"Nigga, why is you single?".......as she would put it!

"Nigga, why is you single?"


As 2011 is well on it's way, i find myself hearing this question asked to me often.
I can be a lil "all over the place" at times, so i will try to answer this question to the best of my ability...

In my 25 Years on this earth, i have seen alot of shit and "Relationships" have been one of the main things that has molded my mind into the way that it is now.
Don't get me wrong, I do want a relationship and all the benefits that come along with being in one, i just don't want to deal with all the bullshit that can come along during the time spent in a relationship! From people being all in your business, to haters not wanting to see y'all together, to lack of trust issues, to generally growing apart. I know that this is the real world and we can't all have that "Fairytale" life in which we find that one who completes you and y'all live happily ever after, but I'll be damned if i get involved in another bullshit relationship that ends up being the Death of me..........so to speak!

So, that's why I've been "single" for awhile. I'm just keep on doing me and having fun until something real comes along. Emotions are a crazy thing to mess with and i know how it feels to be heart-broken and i would never want to purposely put someone through that, so I'm a take my time when it comes to this Relationship Shit!


As i get older and mature into the "Man" i want to become, i find myself getting more honest with Me.........and as with anything you do in life, it has to start within before it can be let out and shown to others! I look forward to the day when people will be able to see me when my full potential is reached!!

-*gotti*