If the number of people with their hands out is greater than the number of people with their hearts out, then some hands need to get chopped off! Way too many selfish people in this world who always seem to need you for something but never ask if you need anything.
That shoulder to cry on, or just a simple "How are you?" or "I Love You" can mean everything to a person in that time of need. This shouldn't be confused by the people who tell you these things only when you are doing something for them or who need something from you, but it's up to you to know this difference....
"People come in and out if your life all the time, but only a few leave Handprints on your Heart!"
(Sometimes i actually say shit that isn't a Joke, go figure!)