"Insecurity is something everyone deals with in life, to one degree or another. None of us is completely secure about every single aspect of ourselves, our abilities, or our personalities. However, there are some people who suffer through an enormous burden of insecurity that seems to never leave their side, always lingering about, ready to knock down all of their dreams and ambitions. It also tends to knock down their relationships. Insecurity is actually one of the greatest killers of relationships that exists..."
Many people deal with it in their own way as for me, it always seems to be in the back of my mind as of lately:
*Should i make the first move?
*Will she like me for who i am?
*I wonder if she talks to her friends about me?
*Was my first impression a good one?
*Am i treating her better than the last nigga?
*Is it worth the risk?
*Will putting my heart out on "Front Street" come back to bite me in the ass?
*Is she or can she be "The One"?
I feel that Men can be just as insecure as women at times, we just have a different way of showin or expressing it. That's why you see men Lie, Cheat and try to avoid Relationships.......because of us being insecure with ourselves.
As i grow into the Man i hope i will be, i can only have Faith that these Insecurities will go away and allow what is to be to be......
From my mouth to God's Ears....................Thank You!!!
*gotti*
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